Dads get a backbone!

This Average Man is also a Baptist Preacher so I am sadden today when I minster at a rural Baptist Church and hear people say "We had some families leave because they wanted something for their kids to do." Really?  At what point in society did young (ages 12-18) people become the decider of where the family unit went to church?  Have the Dads lost the backbone to tell a kid to sit down and listen to the Preacher?  Have we went so far as to let them dictate how we worship also?  Come on Dads man-up!  When you get to Heaven the Lord will ask you why you left the Church He sent you to to be saved and you're going to tell Him "my kids needed something to do."  Really?